
Autumn 2019 · Portland
Where we met
A shared table at Settle & Fern was the only free seat in the café. One spilled oat latte and a two-hour conversation about terrible movies later, Julian asked for a second cup — and a second date.
Seven years, three cities and one very persistent golden retriever later, here we are — writing the last chapter as two, and the first as one.

Autumn 2019 · Portland
A shared table at Settle & Fern was the only free seat in the café. One spilled oat latte and a two-hour conversation about terrible movies later, Julian asked for a second cup — and a second date.

Spring 2021 · The Coast
We packed a rented van, adopted a golden retriever named Biscuit, and moved into a tiny cottage with a lemon tree. The garden was a mess and the kettle never worked, but it was entirely ours.

June 2025 · Big Sur
On a cliff above the Pacific, with Biscuit stealing the ring box mid-speech, Julian got down on one knee. Everly said yes before he'd finished the sentence — and then made him say it all again.

September 2026 · Sonoma
Now we're gathering the people we love most under the oak trees at Fernwood to make it official. Bring your dancing shoes, your appetite, and a tissue or two.
One estate, one unforgettable evening. Here is everything you need to know about the day itself.
Ceremony
Under the Grand Oak
Reception
The Vine Barn & Terrace
Dress code: Garden formal — think soft linens, florals and heels that survive a lawn. The evenings in Sonoma turn cool, so bring a wrap.
A few of our favourite frames from the last seven years — and a hint of what the day will feel like.







The dearest friends and family who have carried us here — and who will be standing with us on the day.

Maid of Honor
Everly's sister, chief cheerleader, and the only person allowed to give a speech longer than five minutes.

Best Man
Julian's college roommate and partner in every questionable road-trip decision since 2014.

Bridesmaid
The friend who answers the phone at 2 a.m. and shows up with snacks by 2:20.

Groomsman
Julian's younger brother, official ring-bearer wrangler and unofficial dance-floor starter.

Bridesmaid
Neighbour turned family, and the reason Everly and Julian ever went on that first double date.

Groomsman
The steady one — first to arrive, last to leave, and keeper of every emergency safety pin.
Kindly reply by August 15, 2026 so we can save you a seat and a slice of cake.
Your presence is the only present we need — but for those who've asked, here is where we're dreaming.
Linens, stoneware and the slow, lovely things that make a house a home.
View registryHelp us chase the sunset in Amalfi — a dinner, a boat ride, a night under the stars.
ContributeA little toward the garden, the porch swing, and that lemon tree we keep talking about.
Give a littleFernwood Estate sits about an hour north of San Francisco. Make a weekend of it — the valley is at its best in September.
The Venue
4200 Bennett Valley Road, Sonoma Valley, CA 95404. Gated parking and a complimentary shuttle from The Larkspur Inn run every 30 minutes from 3:00 PM.
Open in Maps
From $210 / night
Our room block — 8 minutes from Fernwood. Use code EVERLY26 by Aug 1.
Book a room
From $165 / night
A charming, budget-friendly option a short drive into town with free breakfast.
Book a roomFlying in? San Francisco (SFO) is 75 minutes away; Oakland (OAK) and Santa Rosa (STS) are closer for domestic hops. We recommend renting a car — or joining the group shuttle from the inn.